How to control child obstinacy?
Nowadays it is big problem for parents. Due to this the accident case increases of 16-17 years old children. The main reason is this to drive car or bike in uncontrollable speed in minor ages. Parents are bending at the demand of children. Whether is it right or wrong? Because the parents are mad in the love of their children.
Parents have identified this problem at the minor age of children. Some of the parents are either bending the child obstinacy or they believe “We can buy” or “We fulfill the demand of our child”. And when growing of these children, if the demands are not fulfill by parents, they will towards the wrong way.
Here are the some parameters for how to control child obstinacy.
v Ask Reason:
When the child is demand for any thing, just ask why you want this? E.g. If the child is demand for toys, ask why you want to toys, or try to find out the where he/she has seen this toys. It may be giving his/her friends name or may be giving the name of radio or television. At that time you may said that, “Every people have different type of toys, the toys which you have it may not be possess by your friend”. If the toy is seen in television then tells him, “The thing which is shown or listens in television or radio, is not good and useful for us”. Think children him self, what is good for him and what is bad. At that time just remembers the product or thing which is neither yet seen nor used by him.
v Importance of Money:
Always try to understand the importance of money to the children. They must have to know that the things which are purchase for them, all are paid. And parents have to more struggle for earning the more money. Looking at the demand of child obstinacy, parents have to start to give the pocket money to the children and also make attention to the children, whether the child is not trying to find the other sources for making the money.
v Language & Voice:
Tell clearly to children that, “In bazaar or market your demand is not fulfill if you doing obstinacy.” He/she has told his/her demand in short and simple words. If it is right demand in the eyes of parents, then parents will give permission to purchase. Also parents have make attention to their language and voice.
If child is doing obstinacy in the eyes of other people, even though don’t lose your tempo and never become angry man. At this time try to break the concentrate of the child towards the thing and make concentrate at other thing. Due to this you are free from big spend and also develop a good habit in your child.